Ystad children who have been cared for long at home – for the family pets


The daily life of children can be described as living close to nature according to two understanding parents. In any case, if someone can believe in the parents. But when one of the children talks about their daily lives, another image emerges. What the child is really talking about is how fun it is to play with the two dogs and cats in the family.

At no point does he ask for his parents, says a social worker. Instead, he talks about family pets, two dogs and cats.

Emerges after he spent a lot of time with domestic animals, especially in the afternoons. The family also had ponies that you had in a different place from the house.

Remember no peer names

The story of the isolate was revealed by HD-Sydsvansans Andreas Persson and Hussein El-Alawi.

The parents, on several occasions, talked with the social secretary and, in letters to the courts, said they had contact with others, that the children had playmates. The kid who played with the family dogs can not remember when it should have been.

The same applies to one of the older children who also have difficulty naming friends. When courts have examined what parents have said about their association with others, their responses are considered vague and difficult to confirm.

One child said it's been six years since she first met a friend.

When the child who has ever had pets as playmates asks if he wants more phone contact with his parents, he says he would like it because he can learn more about how dogs and cats have them.

Some time after caring for the child, the child had to talk to the parents for the first time when another adult was present. The call was made through a loud voice.

In the future, it may be possible for parents to find their children again.

"In the long run, physical meetings will also be possible. Parents will soon begin family treatment work with the goal of supporting parents in the telephone room and, in the future, also attending physical ", the welfare committee writes in court documents.

The decision is based on the principle of taking care of children as soon as possible to meet with their parents. The municipality of Ystad emphasizes that when a possible encounter can happen, it depends on the parents' "propensity to change."

Dad does not remember important events

After social service officials, accompanied by police officers, entered the family property on August 29, two children were first taken to an emergency family.

The mother's reaction was noticed by a social secretary. She should have wondered what had happened to the dinner she was preparing for the children.

Before that, the mother and father had had several contacts with officials in the township of Ystad. On some occasions the children attended the meetings.

What became clear to the staff was that it was the mother who brought the family action in every essential aspect. According to documents, the father has difficulty remembering the year and when specific events occurred.

At one point, the father agreed with social service officials that he should write down what he remembers. But no email came from his father. Instead came emails and phone calls from the mother.

At one point, after a meeting with his mother, a social secretary wrote that the flow of information was so great that it was difficult to classify what the mother really counts.

Mother driving in the contacts

The mother also demanded to be involved when the social secretary wanted an individual conversation with her father. When she was denied, she sat outside waiting.

The mother is pointed out in several documents as conducting the contacts with the municipality.

Dennis Hjelmström, director of the school in the municipality of Ystad, had contact with the family. He refuses to comment on how the school administration communicates with individuals.

Of the documents that exist where the children themselves tell about their lives in the house, in one case, there are worrying tasks, according to the Malmö Administrative Court.

In one sentence about compulsory taking, it is written that one of the children may have been subjected to painful abuse. What would be for abuse does not appear.

I tried to control toilet visits

It also appears that the mother considered that several of the children have problems with the stomach and intestines. But after the compulsory takeover, these problems seem to have ceased.

Mother and father may still have only limited contact with three of their children. The same applies to older children who have been forced to care. The child is considered by the Court of Appeal in Göteborg to go to the parents' cases and have tried to control how the youngest children deal with their toilet visits.

In the documents that the Kvällsposten passed, there are several letters from the parents. They argue emphatically against coercion and accuse Ystad's social services of having distorted the truth about the upbringing of their children and the domestic environment.

None of the letters made any impression at the Malmö Administrative Court, the Gothenburg Court of Appeal or the Supreme Administrative Court. The legal representative of the three youngest children, after meeting the children, agreed that they should be taken care of.

The children's parents write a text message to Kvällsposten:

"We have good cooperation with social services and we will not give more comments."


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