"We are also women before sex workers"
“My colleague proudly said he was prostituted to a karaoke helper yesterday. How do people react if I say they have real dolls? In Korean society, real doll owners are more despicable and slighted than prostitutes. Real dolls are just your hobbies and likes. Do not treat them like perverts. "
This is part of an article published in an online real doll community earlier this year. The controversy has been hot since the Supreme Court ruling in June allowed the importation of Japanese royal stones. Realdoll is a generic name for a doll that is as close to a human figure as it is, but is often used to refer to a person-like sex doll. Prostitution is often referred to as real dolls, as both aim to relieve men of sexual desire.
How do women in prostitution, who know the attributes of the male gender, face this issue? On the 13th morning, at the Yellow House prostitution hall 4 in Michu Hall, Incheon, women were asked about prostitution about Realdoll.
Recently, it has become difficult to find them in one place. Since closing in May, they have been busy entering a new life. Although he is still on his fourth album because of a fight against pimps, his daily life has changed significantly. In the past, women gathered in bed at the time seriously shared their thoughts and experiences.
A B woman, 53, said she saw a real doll (?) At an adult store in Ginza, Japan, about 30 years ago. “It looks like a balloon. There were places where curtains were put on curtains to experience controversial real stones these days. Putting a memory chip on a doll makes it look like "honey" or "brother". The women expressed their feelings of "Oh, it's too real," "handsome," and "ugly," looking for real doll videos on YouTube. Many men bring adult goods to the store, but he has never seen a real doll.
No "You think eccentric men come to the store"
Although real Korean-made dolls are not illegal, they are difficult to import from abroad. The debate about the pros and cons of importing and selling Realdoll continues. A 30-year-old woman at Casa Amarela said: “In the beginning, I needed an individual, but I had no reason to object. I think I'll go.
Other women in their 40s also said, "I think I'll boost my sexual imagination by watching real dolls, like being raped or urinating in front of my bags." I can do this. They believe that if a man buys expensive expensive dolls, his sexual desire is much higher than normal. Realdoll prices vary widely, but usually cost millions.
◇ "Special danger figure of royal doll"
Women were particularly concerned about the actual dolls that mimicked a particular person. D, 36, said, "If a man has sex with a real doll that looks like a certain woman, he can get confused and sexually guilty when he really meets the woman." There are many men who want to behave like people around them, but what if they have real dolls similar to these women? "
Mr. D trembled as he talked about an experience when a 40-year-old man asked him to play an unimaginable person. Other women also said that many men asked to imitate a particular person. Mr. B said, “It's hard to see this as a common example. There are many men who live in Incheon and do not know where the Yellow House is, "he said." If you only regulate what you do with a specific face, you approve of a real doll, but even if you regulate it, it's illegal. "
Mr. D said, "If you imagine yourself and treat yourself as a woman, you don't have to look the same," she said. “In addition, students must buy real dolls or make children's dolls. Real doll makers say it is virtually difficult to make a real doll exactly like a specific person, but there is no clear way to regulate children, celebrities and acquaintances.
◇ It is useful for person with a disability, lonely person
In favor of real doll culture, they argue that it will be useful for those who live alone or for the socially disadvantaged who have difficulty forming a free heterosexual relationship. In this sense, women suggested that it would be expensive and virtually difficult to use. Mr. B said, "Is it rationalizing the real doll traders?" It's the same.
But another 40-year-old woman said, "If you see men complaining about difficulties coming here, you may need a real doll for people with disabilities."
◇ "Does the teacher sell knowledge and sell hair?"
On the contrary, opposition to the true doll culture represents a violation of women's human rights. If the true doll culture prevails, women will be seen only as sexual tools. "Due to the development of real dolls, I think we will ignore women," she said several times. They said, "The same problem arises with prostitution." Women in their thirties hesitate for a while. "I don't think this is wrong." Are you coming here to solve your sexual desire?
"But there is a problem with the process or method for ending the demonstration of prostitution," he replied: "Why are pimps and prostitutes out of the prostitution industry? B said," The teacher sells knowledge, not boss, "he said. he. "We're not selling sex, we're selling sex services." D also said, "That's work. These days they're called sex workers, not prostitutes."
Will the doll room replace the sex agency?
Although little known since the enactment of the Sex Trafficking Prevention Act in 2004, a doll room was created using real dolls, along with variants such as kiss rooms and massage rooms. But the women said prostitution would not go away because of real dolls. Real dolls and prostitution have a big difference between dolls and people.
"Dolls don't give skinships," D said. "It will be temporary, even if there are many doll shops and fewer sex shops." A 30-year-old woman said, "If you want a real doll, you go to a doll room. If you want a real woman, don't you come to the meeting place?" However, he said: "If the real doll develops to the point of being equipped with artificial intelligence, the prostitution industry will change," he said. "At that time there will be another controversy."
B said, "In the past, there was an underwear and sock collection service in the morning, which is unmatched by real dolls, but nowadays it's just a place to sort out desires." "If you have many doll quarters, you will be hit hard."
When women in their thirties said, "If new business continued to emerge, the venue could be moved to larger, more industrialized venues," the women insisted that decentralization of prostitution would be necessary to develop the venue. Some commented that the Nordic model should be followed. The decriminalization of women victims of prostitution is President Moon's presidential commitment. The Nordic model only punishes sex buyers and recruiters. "While we legalize prostitution, there is a risk of treating women as a commodity more than now," she said. "We also support the Nordic model, but there is also a risk of criminal exposure when men call women the home of the law."
The discussions that began with the Real Doll reached the Nordic model. Women in prostitution have the prejudice of being open to sex, but most oppose imports and sales of real stones. "Even if sex is free, the problem with human rights and crime is different," said D. "We are women before sex workers."
※ Yellow House, also known as Sokui-dong, Michu Hall-gu, Incheon. Created in 1962, the last moment is approaching. With the demolition of local housing associations under way, more than 30 women, including prostitutes, say they have nowhere to go. Concerns about the company are also growing. The women on the cliff edge brought their own stories. I'm hearing that voice at Yellow House Rainy.
Reporter Choi Eun-kyung firstname.lastname@example.org
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